How to Be the Person That Everyone Wants to Be With
I have always been inspired by inspirational Gabriel Iglesias quotes. It reminds me of the mindblowing motivational speeches I listen to during my morning runs. I strongly believe in the power of being inspired. Inspirational quotes help to keep us motivated and give us some perspective in our lives.
Make difficult things easy.
When you’re in a situation where it’s hard to talk, it’s easy to get stuck with your head down and spend most of your time focusing on what you’re saying and how you’re saying it. This makes things feel even harder. To make things easier, try looking up, at least for a few seconds at a time. This will give your mind a chance to relax so that you can think about what other people are saying instead of worrying about how you look or what they think about what you’ve said so far.
Be kind and considerate.
Be mindful of other people’s needs, even if it means taking a small step back from your own plans for a moment or two. Your friends will appreciate it more than you know,
Be aware of the people around you.
Don’t wander off into your own little world when you’re with people who want your attention… especially if they’ve just met each other, Take time to introduce people who don’t know each other yet or chat with someone who might want some attention while their friends are busy talking business or whatever else they need to do at the moment.
Be kind and considerate.
If you want to be the person that everyone wants to be with, you need to be kind and considerate. This means that you should treat others well, even if they aren’t treating you well. It can difficult to do this at times, but if you want people to like you, it’s important that you do. If someone tells a joke at your expense or says something mean about you, don’t take it personally and don’t get angry with them. Instead, forgive them and treat them with kindness in return.
Be friendly and polite.
In order to be the person that everyone wants to with, it’s important that you’re friendly and polite. Smile at people when they walk by or talk to them when they approach.
Say “hello” or “good morning” when entering a room full of people who are already talking amongst themselves; this will show them that you care about their relationship as well as yours with them.
Don’t interrupt when someone else is talking; wait for them to finish before speaking yourself so that they know that what they have to say matters too much for them not to finish saying it first (this also shows respect). Don’t judge other people based on their looks or personality traits.
Smile more.
Everyone likes to be around someone who is grateful and happy. While you might think that you have to be constantly smiling, laughing, and being upbeat to be the person that everyone wants to be around, it’s actually quite simple.
Be yourself.
You don’t have to pretend to be someone else or try to fit into some image of what others think you should be like. Just who you are and let it show in your actions and words.
Be positive and upbeat
If you’re negative and pessimistic, people will avoid you like the plague. Be optimistic and always look for the silver lining in every situation. People will want to around someone who always sees the good in everything, even when there are no good things happening at all.
Make others feel good about themselves by complimenting them on things they do well or enjoy about themselves, even if it seems superficial at first glance because most people love compliments from others about their appearance and accomplishments in life. Just make sure it’s sincere, or people will see right through you and your insincerity.
